"My girlfriend’s parents are really religious. The first time I met them, they called her later and asked: ‘Is your new friend struggling with her sexuality?’"
To whom it may concern ,
Parents just want the the best for their kids and that why everything you do they want to know about it because they want to take care of you and help you out after all they are your parents . When is come to talking to your family or to anyone about your sexuality it can be real hard and its understandable because not everyone is going to react the same way . For example some parent may be okay with it but others like religious parents might believe something different but people are allow to choose what they like and don't and maybe at first your parents won't accept it but people can change you mind. But in my opinion make shore that your are close to the person that your telling this to because you can just tell a person you don't really talk to about your sexuality .
When telling people this type of personal information you have to be shore 100% positive and confident because you can say something today and say something else tomorrow . Most parents react in a negative way and tend not to believe what their telling you but if thats the case is because they don't know what do and mostly blame their self about it because after all they are the ones who took care of you and etc.. But just tell them that your happy the way you are and nothing would make you happier if they accepted you for being gay or Les , bi or trans don't make you a different person theirs no need for a different treatment because your the same person but choose a different sexuality . Just don't worry if someone don't accept you the way you are that means they didn't really love you and you don't need people who wont accept you for who you truly are because like i said before your sexuality preference doesn't matter .
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. But i did some research and found a wed site were it tell you step by step here the link http://www.wikihow.com/Come-Out-to-Strict-Religious-Parents-When-You're-Gay
Here a website for you parent or friends http://www.posimages.org/resources/for-parents-questions-and-answers/
Here is somebody giving advice about what you may be going through.
Dariana, this is a really informative post. You are including your own suggestions for this person's dilemma as well as outside resources.
ReplyDeleteAfter a spelling and grammar check and after embedding links versus copy and pasting them, you should be all set.